AUSTRALIA: MAKING UP FOR 19 YEARS OF LOST TIME

 

When Isha Munya fled war-torn Somalia more than two decades ago, she was faced with the heartbreaking prospect of never seeing her loved ones again.

The brutal inter-tribal violence that had broken out across the country scattered her large and close-knit family, forcing her to leave her mother Akrabo and one of her daughters, Faduma, then 8, behind.

"My heart was pounding," Isha recalls of the anguished moment she had to say goodbye. "But it was not a safe place to stay. If we had have stayed, the whole family would have been killed."

Her departure from Somalia was the beginning of a 19-year separation.

The first eight years were spent in neighbouring Kenya, where Isha, her husband and remaining children lived in four different refugee camps. In 1998 the family was given the opportunity to escape their life of limbo and relocate to Adelaide, in South Australia.

It was in Australia that Isha, determined to unearth the fate of her family members, sought the help of the Australian Red Cross.

After discovering that many of her extended family members had died during the war, the Red Cross gave Isha the news she had only dreamed of - Akrabo and Faduma were alive.

Letters and photos were excitedly exchanged and in 2009 Faduma, now almost 30 and with a husband and baby of her own, flew to Adelaide to reunite with her mother.

"When I saw Faduma for the first time I didn't recognize her, but then she called out: 'mother' and tears started falling down my face," Isha says, recalling the emotional moment at the airport.

Four years later, and mother and daughter are making up for lost time.

Faduma now lives in Adelaide, just a few blocks from Isha's colourful rug-draped home, and the pair spends precious moments together each day.

And while life together away from war and refugee camps has brought immense joy, there is still one person missing from this happy family picture.

For Isha, reuniting with her Kenya-bound mother Akrabo – whom she continues to contact regularly through the Red Cross – is the final key to lasting happiness.

"It's the last piece of the puzzle," she says.

Isha Munya with daughter Mulky, niece Halima, and grandchildren Isha, Hawa and Ruqiya © ICRC

 

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